Learning Along a Wandering Path
My path hasn’t always been straightforward, but every step has added depth to my perceptions of human conditions. After serving in the U. S. Army at Fort Knox, Kentucky, I pursued a Master of Science in Counselor Education at Emporia State University. This academic foundation, coupled with my experience in the army, became the springboard for the various paths my life has taken. This includes that of a trainer and a seminar presenter. Sharing practical insights on management, leadership, and personal growth across the United States and internationally.
About Me
Helping Others Find Solutions
A portion of my professional life was spent as an employee assistance professional for a large corporation. I helped individuals resolve behavioral and performance challenges, both at work and in their personal lives. Guiding people through challenging situations and watching them grow gave me a deep sense of purpose.
Personal Growth Through Life’s Challenges
Early on, I struggled with uncertainty about my life’s direction while battling the challenges of alcohol, which sometimes led me astray. Today, I live a sober and more principled life. Additionally, caring for my elderly uncle for more than six years was an unexpected but intrinsically rewarding chapter of my life. This experience taught me much about myself and about giving compassion and care to others.
A Nagging, Persistent Thought
For years, an inner voice urged me to write—a calling I ignored in the past, even when opportunity came calling (no pun intended). Encouraged by a close friend and author, I now share insights and reflections through my search for meaning and purpose. Writing allows me to pass along some of the gems of wisdom I’ve collected over a lifetime of learning and searching.
Beyond Work and Writing
When I’m not speaking or writing, I enjoy mountain biking, hiking, collecting cufflinks, and struggling, maybe like you, with the big questions about why we’re here.
Commitment Beyond the Workplace
In the past, I have been privileged to serve my community in various roles. I was on the advisory board for a domestic violence shelter and the president of my community’s substance abuse organization. Additionally, for over a decade, I served as a volunteer member of the Arizona Rangers Law Enforcement Auxiliary. These experiences help shape my perspective on helping others through community service.
Questions for Frank
Answer: “Which one?”, he said with a laugh.
My father’s work took us to many places. I found grade cards for 17 schools between the 1st and 5th grades. I don’t recall where I was in 6th grade. Three junior high schools. One high school. Two colleges.
Once, when in graduate school, I was told that if my family had stayed in one place long enough, I might have been tested by a school psychologist. (Not sure school psychologists were around, then.) It was likely I would have been labeled LD, learning disabled. Like that would’ve helped me? I might still be in therapy.
There were times when school was enjoyable. My reading ability didn’t develop like it probably should. I still subvocalize when reading.
Much of my education was from the many places we lived. Seeing things many of my peers might never get to see.
I guess it’s a mixed bag. But that can be a good thing.
Probably, from some things that used to show up on my early grade cards: “Nice child; makes friends easily; doesn’t pay attention, doesn’t follow directions; daydreams too much”. It’s okay to be in your private little world—but let others in sometimes.
So many. Viktor Frankl, Pat Conroy, Malcolm Gladwell, and Somerset Maugham for starters.
Ever been in a quiet forest, and all you can hear is the wind in the trees? Get’s me every time.
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